A mistaken form of 'tenterhooks', used to mean being in a state of suspense or anxiety.
Examples:
She waited on tenderhooks for the exam results.The fans sat on tenderhooks during the penalty shootout.He felt on tenderhooks before proposing on stage.
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Tenterhooks
To be in a state of anxious suspense.
Examples:
Anticipation left her on tenterhooks for the entire week.Waiting for the test results kept him on tenterhooks all night.She was on tenterhooks wondering if the job offer would come.
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Tenderhooks is a common misheard version of tenterhooks; remember that the correct phrase dates back to the process of cloth finishing.
A tenterhook is a hook used to hold cloth stretched on a tenter frame, not a tender hook which sounds like it would be gentle in nature.
Think of tenter as related to tension, as the hooks kept the fabric taut.
Tender generally refers to something soft or gentle, which doesn't align with the original meaning involving hooks.
When in doubt, remember that the original spelling is tenterhook, like how tents are stretched.