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Ashamed vs. Embarrassed

Ashamed

/əˈʃeɪmd/
Feeling embarrassed or guilty because of something one has done or a quality they possess

Examples:

She was ashamed of her mistake.I'm ashamed; I should have helped more.

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Embarrassed

/ɪmˈbærəst/
Feeling self-conscious or ashamed about something.

Examples:

She was embarrassed about her mistake.He felt embarrassed when his phone rang in class.

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Ways to tell them apart:

etymology
  • Ashamed is linked to a moral failing or a personal wrongdoing that affects one's conscience deeply.
  • To be embarrassed often arises from a social mishap or awkward situation that is usually not morally charged.
  • Think of ashamed as a deep, internal feeling possibly related to guilt, whereas embarrassed is more external, often related to what others might think.
  • Ashamed often suggests a sense of guilt or disgrace, while embarrassed is more about feeling awkward.
  • You can be embarrassed by a faux pas in company; the feeling is usually temporary, but shame might linger longer and indicate a need for restitution or change.
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